Success is Self-Belief
Only a few people, less than five percent, achieve what the world calls great success. This is success in any field, corporate, sports, financial, homemaking, growing a better rose, creating a gourmet recipe, being a parent, or being a friend.
Success is an individual thing and only the person involved can be responsible for what success is to him or her.
People who succeed are people who believe they can succeed. Success, until it has been won, is a mental thing. A person has only a mental picture and the belief, until it, the goal has been achieved.
Belief in one’s self is one of our most difficult accomplishments. We tend to believe that others can accomplish the things we would like to accomplish, but we somehow lack the same faith in ourselves.
Why?.. Well, it’s because we’re so familiar to ourselves. We know ourselves, or think we do, and it is human nature to accord more ability to a stranger than to someone we know very well.
As individuals, we’re conscious of our shortcomings. We remember, consciously and subconsciously, every one of our little failings and past failures. We’re aware of all the thousands of things we cannot do well, and we underestimate our ability in those areas in which we excel. A man is never a hero in his own home, and the same can be said of how we regard ourselves in our own minds.
We should realize it is no more amazing that we should succeed in the things at which we’re good than that others should succeed in their fields.
Succeeding in life is like successfully baking a cake. It’s a matter of following a recipe. Any attempt at a short cut may result in a miserable cake.
Any human being on earth can be successful if he will decide, once and for all, what it is he wants to accomplish, define it, write it out right down to the last comma and period, and then go after it, relentlessly, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year until it is accomplished.
Once a person has the recipe for success, it doesn’t bother him too much if he finds himself with an occasional setback or failure, any more than a good cook would worry too much, or quit baking cakes, just because of an occasional flop. Mature, intelligent people realize that failure is just as much a part of success as success is part of every failure.
You can never play golf in the seventies, until you’ve played in the eighties and nineties. And just as a pro will occasionally turn a bad score, he knows it is only a sign for more practice.
C. W. Wendte wrote: “Success in life is a matter not so much of talent or opportunity as of concentration and perseverance.”
He’s right, but it takes belief in yourself, to persevere.
Earl Nightingale
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I enjoyed your post,
Success is a mind state. What you believe you can indeed achieve.
When you match your gifts, your experience and training with a market problem; success occurs easily.
I have been as the world describes it; Successful, however my quest moving forward it to be; Significant.
Unfortunately a number of people leap into business with unrealistic expectations. So I wrote an eBook; the 50 Ugly truths of starting your own business…and why you should do it anyway. You can download a free copy on my blog at http://www.nosmokeandmirrors.com.
Mark Allen Roberts
http://www.outbsolutions.com
Mark, thank you for your feedback. I normally object to others promoting themselves on the back of my own blood, sweat, tears and risk. However, I enjoyed your book and have a copy on my desktop. Thank you. It tells it as it is and provides a reality check…emphasising the strength of character required, the “courage to act”, which we all have and which we all need to find if we as individuals are to break free from the shackles of an unremarkable life, to strive for our individuality, our independence and self-realization.
It is, as you know all about Attitude, Commitment, Self-belief, Persistence and a passion to serve.
I agree with your opening sentence “Success is a mind state”…Earl Nightingales famous work “The Strangest Secret” is based on the simple but powerfull message “We become what we think about”…
Your quest to be “Significant”, captures beautifully, “the worthy ideal” in Earl’s definition of success “The progressive realization of a worthy goal or ideal”.
Thank you again for your valuable contribution. I wish you every happiness and ongoing success.
Steve
Everyday I face the market and the market faces me back.
Without a singular belief in myself that I can succeed where
so many others have failed, I’d be cut up and cast aside
with the rest.
Belief gives one the drive to continue to learn, compete,
and succeed each and every day.
I enjoyed your article. Thank you!